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What Men Really Mean. Listen Up Women!

COMMUNICATION IS KEY! At times, we all talk in code for different reasons. This post is geared more toward women to give them an idea of how our amazing brains work and what we are thinking when we say certain things in certain situations. Consider this dating advice and dating tips for women.

He says: This is our third date, isn’t it?
He says: What time do you go to work in the morning?
He means: I WANT SEX!



He says: We haven’t spoken for ages and I’ve been thinking about you.
He means: I haven’t gotten laid in almost three months and no one else is available.


He says (in the middle of a great orgasm): I love you.
He means: I love that incredible thing you are doing to me right now. During sex, take anything we say with a grain of salt!


He says: I really like you.
He means: I think I am falling in love but if I say that word, there is no going back. We are carefully advising you that we are into you.


He says: You’re an amazing woman.
He means: You’re an amazing woman.

- Let’s flip the scenarios here and see how well men listen -

Woman says: What do you do for a living?
He hears: Are you making enough money to make you marriage material?


Woman says: What are we doing Friday night?
He hears: I want all your time and you can never go out with your friends anymore.


Woman says (after making love): That was really nice.
He hears: That was the best sex of my life. Let’s do it again!


Do you have more examples for us that you would like to share? I bet you do!

Drake | Love Monkey | Dating Advice & Tips for Men | Because Relationships are Bananas!


6 Comments to What Men Really Mean. Listen Up Women!

  1. Grouchy Georgia

    To add my two cents, I could go on forever on this topic, but thought I would just use my most recent experience…

    When a man says: “If you want to cancel it’s ok”.

    What they really mean is A: I want to make other plans but want you to be the one to cancel. or B: It’s really not OK and if you do even hint about canceling, it will be thrown in your face and held over your head forever!

    Just saying :)

    • Drake

      Interesting take on our post but yes, at times, we all do talk in a code of sorts. In your example, maybe he really meant what he said. What a concept huh?! Thanks for the two cents Grouchy Georgia!

  2. Malanb

    This post was genius!

  3. Paul Dixon

    Looking forward to reading more. Great article.Really thank you!

  4. Janice Gordon

    “Great, thanks for sharing this article. Keep writing.”

  5. Matthew Shaw

    “Wow, great blog article.Really thank you! Awesome.”

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