A friend of Love Monkey asked us for the best way to break the ice when you first meet a woman of interest. Before compiling our own thoughts, we decided to see what others thought. Read below my Love Monkies!
Let’s say there is a hot woman ordering a drink next to you and you are at a loss of words. You need some questions to ask her to maybe get to know her better. I suggest personal questions but this early in the intro, try to make your questions light and then ask more deep questions as things progress. Also, keep your questions up beat and unique.
Try These Questions:
Did you have a great summer? Did you Travel at all? Next say, Where would you choose to live if you could live anywhere in the world?
Want to be more aggressive?:
Try: Are you currently married? Are you in a relationship? Do you want to be? Why?
After you break the ice:
Try: What are your passions? Do you like roller coasters? Are you into chick flicks? Nice glasses, can I try them on? Do I look as sexy as you? (Sexual overtones)
These are all great questions to ask a girl to get to know her. You should adapt your questions to fit your style though. Her body language and your sound observations should have an impact on your variety of questions. A girl with tattoos all over body commands different questions than a shy women over in the corner. If the situation starts going your way it is important to mix in sexual overtones.
In a nutshell, know your subject. Keep your questions pithy, positive and fairly unique. Make it about her and LISTEN. Don’t go off about your life and don’t stare at her boobs.
Decide if the dialogue is going well and if it is, start using sexual suggestions. Be nice but take control.
Love Monkey’s take:
I agree with the subject matter but not a fan of some of the questions above. Everything else is on point but I don’t think there is a defined set of questions to present to women when you make your approach. Depends on the woman, the venue and your mood.