When you and an attractive woman start flirting do you get more shaky and sweaty than a marathon runner in August? Are you a funny and interesting guy that’s clueless about how to take flirting to the next level?
If so, then it’s time to enter the flirting dojo and learn how to flirt like a grand master:
Watch Your Body (Not Hers)
Experts say that we communicate more via body language than through the words that come out of our mouths. Nowhere is this more evident than in the world of flirting. Although what you say is important in the realm of courtship, the signals that you give off through your body language are just as (if not more) important.
One of the most common body language mistakes guys make is that they tend to lean in when their conversation partner speaks. This type of body language gives off the impression that her words are more important than her comfort. Instead, simply opt for a straight and neutral posture. You can show that her words are important to her through more subtle cues such as eye contact and head nodding.
Don’t Be Funny — Be Playful
One of the tell-tale signs that things are going well is that a girl laughs at your jokes –or is it? In many cases, humor can be cold, rude and shocking (just ask some of the most popular stand up comedians around today). However, playful guys are just as endearing and carry virtually no risk of being offensive.
There’s no “how to” guide on being playful, but in general playful people are free spirits that are fun to be around. Experiment with playfulness next time you’re chatting with a girl: dance, yodel, do jumping jacks or just about anything that will show off your fun and care-free personality.
Leave Sensitivity at the Door
Whether you like it or not, the woman you’re flirting with is probably going to give you little tests along the way. These tests are her way of ensuring that you’re strong enough to be a potential mate. After all, if you can’t take a joke from a petite woman how can you possible protect and provide for her?
So if she cracks on your clothes, hair or jewelry it’s probably a sign that she actually likes those things about you (as counter intuitive as that may seem). When she does inevitably take a few swings at you, just laugh it off. Or better, yet return the favor with a few jabs of your own. She’ll respect your Teflon skin and strength of character.
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